Starting Your Day With Gratitude

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In the past recent weeks I have started a new habit each morning. Before my feet ever hit the floor and I get out of bed, I start thanking God for the blessings he has given me. It could be anything: my salvation, my health, my family, my home, or my job. I really do try to think of new things each morning and sometimes that can be difficult. Some mornings are harder for my brain to wake up and think clearly. I don’t want it to be a habit of the same old repetitive stuff, but be intentional about focusing in on all the many blessings I have, big or small. If you think about, we are all abundantly blessed by a loving God. Do we deserve the gifts he gives? I do not, but yet he continues to work good in my life.


Practicing gratitude has a significant impact on our lives if we will let it. I get it, it is hard to be grateful every single day. But when I put the effort in to intentionally focusing on having a thankful heart, it truly makes a difference in my outlook and how I approach each day. When I think back on all the blessings and gifts I have been given, it also serves as a reminder of where I have come from. How he has made a way when I couldn’t see one. How he brought me through hard seasons and my faith grew stronger for it. This helps fan the flame of hope I have inside. I know God is at work even if it is behind the scenes.

When we live with thankful hearts, that gratitude can ripple out and have a positive effect on those we engage with. We tend to be more kind and encouraging and let’s face it, the communities we live in are struggling right now. We need more of God’s love being shared. This world needs hope, not in humanity because we are fallen, but in the One who created it all.

When you have God in your life, you have HOPE. I have mentioned before how grace is a word that has become very significant to my Christian walk, but I will tell you hope isn’t too far behind. Oh the hope we can have because of Christ! It doesn’t matter how dark the storm clouds may be, we can always cling to the hope we have in HIM!

We have this as a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul, a hope that enters into the inner place behind the curtain, where Jesus has gone as a forerunner on our behalf, having become a high priest forever after the order of Melchizedek. Hebrews 6:19-20.

If you are in a season of hopelessness, I would encourage you to take time each day focusing on things you are grateful for. Maybe your season is so dark that you can only come up with one or two things the first few days but don’t give up on it. Continue each day by being intentional about reminding yourself of your blessings. Write them down if you need to. But I do think that after you get into a habit of doing this, you will start to see a change in your attitude and how your days progress. I dare say you may start to feel your hope being revived. You may find some joy rising back up in your heart. I pray you do. The hope we have in Christ is a gift in itself and it is one we should share with those around us.

Keep moving forward,

Hayley W

Wandering in the Wilderness

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Have you ever felt like you are just going the through the motions with no sense of direction or purpose? You may have several paths ahead of you to go down but instead you find yourself wandering in circles getting absolutely nowhere. I have recently found myself there and it is not the first time, nor will it be the last time. I never find the wilderness fun when it comes with a mediocre sense of well being. Like Meh. That is how I feel. June was extremely busy leaving me feeling like I was in survival mode most days. I found myself just wishing the time would pass so I could make it to July in hopes of a slower schedule. But even prior to June, I was just here. Not hot, not cold, just lukewarm. A scary place to encounter at times as even the Bible warns about being lukewarm. I know for a fact that these seasons are part of our Christian walk. I personally don’t think they can be avoided. They just come and then thankfully they go. They usually hang around longer than wanted but I have learned you just have to keep pressing on because as one of our church members has always said, “This too shall pass.”

Several occasions I would get on my blog to try to start a new post only to just stare blankly at the blinking cursor. Nothing. Zilch. Nada. I may could come up with a title but absolutely no words would follow. Maybe I am just not cut out for this anymore? I would take a deep breath, sigh and then close out the screen and shut my laptop. No doubt, I have been in a period of growth but not the exciting or fun kind. I feel like I am in a season of learning to heal. Trying to let go and forgive. Trying not to be offended. Trying to let the truth simmer and settle in my heart over the emotions that are vying to be expressed. Just cause you feel it, it doesn’t mean it is true. When people wrong you or the ones you love it is tough to get over. Our enemy will try to get us to marinate our thoughts on that hurt to a point where we get stuck in our pain. Everything we do will stem from that hurt. How we see things, how we treat others, and how we react to situations. This really isn’t fair to those around us who are innocent and have done nothing wrong. If we are not careful it can cause our hearts to harden and not only to that particular event or circumstance, but our hearts can become completely numb to everything. It will affect who we are. I do not enjoy those seasons but it is just part of the journey we must process and get through.

Lessons I have learned from this is to not become the person or situation that hurt you or your family. Hurt people, hurt people. Healed people, heal people. I do not want to become bitter, but better. I may never understand the “why” behind one’s actions, but I must realize I am not accountable for them. I can only control my actions and my attitude.

Healing is a process. Forgiveness is a process. You can be doing really good with both and then one little thought or incident may arise and knock you back several steps. It is okay. The most important thing is to get back up and keep moving forward. Refocus, regroup and carry on. Remind yourself of the truth of the situation. For me, I know God loves me. He forgives me. He showers me with grace. He gives me peace. Now I am not suppose to keep those to myself but I am to turn around and pay it forward to those around me with his help and guidance. I cannot do this on my own. We can love and forgive others because God has done that for us.

We love because he first loved us. 1 John 4:19 ESV

Keep moving forward,

Hayley W